Men in denial about health
August 25th, 2008
Today we had the very unfortunate news that a work colleague lost her husband to cancer.
The absolute tragedy is that apart from being 48 years old, he had chosen to ignore the many signs leading up to his diagnosis. It wasn’t that he was unaware of his health issues but that he simply put it in the back of his mind and went on denying he had a potential problem.
The very sad reality is, had he seen a doctor when his symptoms first appeared, he may have been able to receive treatment that at the very least extended his life and at the very most, put him in remission.
He was a father to a 13 year old daughter and I am so very sad for her today.
His wife was initially angry with her husband. She had repeatedly told him to seek medical advice but he was insistent that it was nothing to worry about.
The tragedy is that he has left a wife behind who is now dealing with guilt and anger for not pushing him to see a doctor and a young woman devistated that her Dad is not with her today.
I know that for many men it is simply easier to try and ignore their health but please, take it seriously. You are Husbands, Dads, Sons and Brothers and the void you leave behind is often unbearable for your loved ones.
It is ironic that most men take the responsibility of being a parent seriously. They work hard to provide happy childhoods for their children and provide them with everything they can. Yet, so many don’t take responsibility of their health when in-fact, it’s the most important thing they should be doing.
Take care of yourself and see a doctor regularly and especially if you know or suspect there might be an issue with your health.
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